
So I'm writing to vent a bit.
This is not a big deal at all. But I need to clarify to the world.
In my advanced writing class today my teacher showed us an example of a paper her daughter wrote. This paper has bad transitions, and that was the point she was trying to make. Thank you Mr. Birrell for teaching me the correct way to transition papers, therefore, in contrast, however, finally, etc.
The paper she showed us was an argumentative paper addressing the question of whether or not children with Down Syndrome should be mainstreamed. I perked up.
My little sister Cami has Down Syndrome.
She didn't read the paper and I wish she had. That is not the point, however. As she was describing her daughters research she kept saying things like, "Whether Downs kids should be mainstreamed".
"Those Down Syndrome children..."
Do you see anything wrong with these sentences? Not grammatically of course (ps don't judge me on grammar here, that's not what blogs are for). Here are my corrections, and if you want to be nice and politically correct, read them.1. Don't say Downs. Downs is not a nickname. If you look it up in the dictionary, you won't find anything that describes something as complex as Trisomy 21.
2. Just because a person is born with an extra chromosome doesn't mean that they loose all identity. A person who has ancestors from Germany is not "that German child", he is a child with German ancestry.
My sister has Down Syndrome but she most certainly does not carry the title of Down Syndrome in her name. When I am describing a person with an eating disorder I would not say, "anorexic Suzy..." If her anorexia were important to the information I was presenting, I would say, "My friend Suzy, who has anorexia..."
Those two sentences, the one with "Downs" and "Down Syndrome children" are incorrect. Please don't use them again Professor. Or anyone else for that matter.
This really got me worked up today. I don't think disabilities should define us. Other wise I would be introduced as the half-doer anxious girl. No thanks.
My sister is really great. And so are millions of other people who have disabilities, whether they be physical, emotional, intellectual or spiritual. They want to be known for who they are, not what they have
I love you. And I love this. I have been thinking a lot about this lately. And for a paper in Writing, we have to write an opinions essay. So I'm going to write about the word "retarded" and it's transition into slang. You're the best. :)
ReplyDeletethanks, katrina. i'm not lucky enough to be around anyone like your sister, so i appreciate the reminder.
ReplyDeleteI love Cami! She is so smart and so funny and definitely has an identity totally independent from Down Syndrome. And I love that you described yourself as "half doer anxious girl." That made me laugh out loud.
ReplyDeleteKatrina, thank you for sharing this. I know just how you feel. Being in a family with a younger sibling that has a disability is very eye opening. You catch things that others wouldn't even think are offensive. My little brother has Spina Bifida and I hate when people categorize him in something like you described. Thank you for not being scared to express your feelings. I really look up to you so that means a lot to me.
ReplyDeleteExactly. My sister has Down Syndrome as well but that's never been something that we classify her as. She's Mary, and she's an angel. Although we've never classified her as a "Downs" child- it's very frustrating when others do, and think she can't achieve outside of that stereotype. For the most part- I don't think people realize what they're doing is offensive, they just need to be educated. And you're helping to educate people right here on your blog- so thank you!
ReplyDeleteYour mom posted a link to your blog on our T21 Facebook page for all us moms of kids with Down syndrome to read. I love this! But I don't blame your professor. Before my son was born to me, I was totally clueless about this stuff. I have learned a lot over time and by interacting with others in a community of people with disabilities. Many people avoid, or just don't have opportunity to be involved with, such a community, and so they don't understand. Thanks for your post.
ReplyDeleteI love this. And I love you and Cami. Those pictures are adorable. Also, when people say that, it hurts me also Wehen people refer to other people as "handicapped" or "disabled" or a "downs child", when it doesn't define them. All people are so much more than that.
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ReplyDeletewell put.
ReplyDeleteI love you and I love Cam-bam :) Thanks for sharing Trin :)
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